Motivational Corner
Do Not Play With People's Feelings!!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/22/12
Heal Your Emotional Wounds!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/22/12Heal as much of your emotional wounds as you can before stepping into a relationship. Release your old emotional baggage and step into a new relationship a brand new self of you. No intimate relationship should be spent unpacking old baggage. It is also not fair to the other person who may have already unloaded all their baggage. There are some things you won't be aware of until you are in an intimate relationship. But you have got to know when to take a break so you can work on healing you before stepping back into that relationship. You'ld be amazed to see how much healthier your relationship has become.
Never Be Ashamed About Your Past!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/21/12Don't allow anyone to judge you based on your past. Never be ashamed of your past. Who you were then has shaped the person you are today. If someone outside of you has a problem with your past, then that is their personal issue and not yours. Your life is your life and what you do in your life is your business. Never apologize for who you were and who you are. Live Your Life on Your terms. Those who are insecure within themselves will think you are being cocky and arrogant. However, You know the truth about You. Accept Yourself, Approve of Yourself! ~~Trudy-Ann
Love is Grand...Love Is Love!!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/20/12
DeClutter Your Life....Unblock Your Internal Energy!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/20/12Where in your life is there clutter? Do you realize that external clutter is indicative of major internal clutter? Declutter Your Mind, declutter your emotions and watch your outer world begin to align. And as you declutter your external world, your internal self will become more at peace. Your Energy cannot flow if your external and internal world is cluttered. Your Energy is what attracts all those oh so wonderful things to your life. So if your Energy, your Chi is blocked, your life will feel stuck and uncomfortable. Unblock the clutter, let Your Energy flow! ~~<3~~
What Is Holding You Back From Living a Passionate Life?
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/20/12FREE Yourself from whatever is holding you back from living a passionate life. Interestingly enough, when you live a passionate life you will feel such an overwhelming sense of free-ness within you. You only answer to yourself. You are not caged in by limiting beliefs nor are you any longer being conditioned or controlled by your culture, traditions, religion or by your gender. You are not your gender, so there is no need to limit your growth, freedom and expansion just because you are a woman or just because you are a man. Living a Passionate life knows no gender. So remove the chains from around Your Heart, Mind & Your Soul and starting today Create Your Passion-filled Life!! ~~?~~
Your Partner/Spouse Is NOT Your Child!!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/19/12
No matter how hard you try, you cannot force someone to change and see the error of their ways if they don't want to. These are the individuals who dig their feet into the ground and refuse to look at themselves. You would think that as an Adult they will be open to growing themselves and see where they went wrong. No, that's because they are still children on the inside. They haven't grown up. They have to be right no matter what, what they say goes, and they don't need to listen to you. Who do you see behaving that way? Children, right! It is then easy to get into the role of parent because the other person is behaving like a child. Be careful of falling into this role.
Your Partner/Spouse is not Your child. It is NOT your responsibility to grow your Mate. If you find yourself and your Partner in this role, it is time to take steps to adjust this situation. Otherwise, you will lose your mind and grow old before time while your Partner is still young. Because afterall they were the child while you were being the Parent!!
STOP Holding On To False Promises!!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/18/12It is VERY hard to forgive and understand someone when their behaviour never changes. They want you to understand who they are and know that's not who they are on the inside, yet, on the outside they keep continuing to behave in that deplorable way. They want you to buy into their promises of change, yet they do nothing to change. So what happens is that you keep holding on to empty promises, you keep your life on pause for that individual who gets off on seeing you keeping your life on hold for them. It feeds their ego. It's time to let those individuals go. They are not healthy within themselves and they are not healthy for your life and your psyche. Heal Yourself, heal your mind, heal your psyche. Don't let that person continue to batter your Mental State. Save Yourself, Heal Yourself, Love Yourself!!
How Can One Person Be So Insensitive, Cold and Cruel!!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/18/12It can be so heartbreaking and can make you angry when you see someone who trivialize the suffering someone else is going thru especially when they contributed to it. They act as if they are the ones who was offended instead of you who is suffering. They can never step out of themselves to be there for you. They can never see the real pain you are in. It's all about them. Those are not the people that should be in your life. They will NEVER see you as a Human Being. They will ALWAYS find a way to put themselves in the mix. They are INATELY SELFISH!! They do not know how to step out of themselves and be for anyone else. You end up being for them and ignoring yourself and your pain when it should have been them being for you. Those Cold, Cruel and Insensitive Individuals DO NOT need to occupy your life.
Women - Do Not Lose Your Dignity!!
by Trudy-Ann Ewan on 02/17/12Women - Do not lose your dignity trying to find out more about the other woman. Do not stalk the "other woman". Do not try to make that woman's life a living hell and your's too. Maintain your self-love, self-respect, self-esteem by keeping the situation between you and your partner. There is also nothing wrong in talking to your trusted friend or even a Trained Professional if things get too overwhelming. And more importantly, DO NOT, DO NOT, sink into depression because of your relationship. You will find love again. YOu are still beautiful inside and out.

